Cat with a Garden opines that Creampuff is male. I get a sorta male "vibe" from Creampuff, too. If it is a "he", he's been neutered, cuz I did a quick exploration while he was distracted by Leo and found nothing but an area that seemed lacking in "fun parts" (as Max would say), but didn't feel quite female, either. I know, terribly rude of me.... Well, I didn't want to trap & neuter him if it had already been done! :)
It'd be really great to find him a home. In fact, MY home would suit me, but I don't think Minnie would take it well--she never did like having Leo in the house. And god help us if Creampuff started spraying.... I just can't have that in the house again.
I haven't seen Creampuff (who really needs a better name, if he is, in fact, a "he") spray yet. I've heard him growl at other kitties--pretty authoritatively, too. It was at Leo, though, and Leo still has kittenish, rather pushy ways about him, even though he's 3 years old now.
Oh--the nose drops? Not a hit. :D